Thursday, March 29, 2007

Possesiveness...the darkest evil in disguise...

My dad always used to ask something to me, what is it on Earth that you possess when you enter this life and when you die what is it that you posses? And the answer is simple..NOTHING...!!!

But in the mean time, amidst all the fun and frolic that you have iin your mind and the very lucky few who execute few of the m to success as well, and say I am not possessive about anything or anyone..What the heck are you talkng of..??Are you true to yourself ??? I would say...NOPE...

There is something or the other that you are possessive of in this Earth and trust me..It hurts a lot when you are possessive of someone than something and when something happens with that person, whom you are possessive about...even though they themself are not responsible for what ever happened at any point, but still there is something that hurts....do you know the answer why...It is not because of what ever happened and to what extent it happened...when and how it happened and cause of whom it happened...it is just cause, it is to some special one that this very thinga happened to and even this is not the reason why your are hurt...It is that mere small evil in you, that has only one good reason for its existence in this planet..to HURT..!!

Tell me this, have you ever been so happy that someone you feel possessive of is really happy about something...?? You just shy of saying that, 'Hey he/she os happy, and am happy for him/her...'...but when you are hurt by your possessiveness, how many times have you said, 'Hey it is something that happened to him/her, am sorry for him/her...its not gonna bother me'...but when you are possessive does your mind ever think this way...??Nope, it is true and a fact that...'More than your mind, it is your heart that gets hurt the most...'

So tell me friends...Is it really worth feeling possessive about something or someone...when all it gives you is cribbing, hurt, pain, anger and agony..??

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At 6:20 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

Being possesive always hurts...but still its uncontrollable and self destructive.... Is there a step to step way to solve this disease without damaging a relationship?

 

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