Making others happy...Ever thought about yourself..??

Last night, I chatted with one of my dear friend over the internet and she asked me...how is your girl friend doing...and my reply was...She is fine I guess...and my reply bemused her..."You guess...what is this Hari...!!!"...I had to explain to her as to how demanding my work was and she said, "All you guys are like this, work is imprtant to you, but so are we I guess..."...soon I got busy and had to sign out...but I had this thought lingering in my mind...and that forced me to write this...

'In life, how many things do we do to make ourselves happy and how many minutes we do things that we want to do?... Make ourselves feel that we are living a life of ours and not for/of someone else, be it anyone/anything you picture in the opposite chair...Life is not about ourself, I do understand that, but you are a peron yourself and you make a mark in others minds and hearts for what you are youself and not what you are for others...How many people are the same and think the same before engaging themself into any kind of a commitment? I would say very few...the elite and lucky few who are not influenced by the external factors in life...of any form or size...

There are many phases in ones life where one makes a shift in his priority list, don't they...at least I did...When I was in my sixth grade, the goals I set for myself was to finish my homework in time, so that my mom lets me sit and watch StreetHawk...Diddy's Comedy Show and other shows which were my world then, then came the second phase, where I had to compromise on cricket and my most passionate sport of my life Tennis when it came to givin priority to my studies...then came college, where one has the best part of his life and i do not blame anyone or anythin..but after college...everything is back to square one again...

Work needs more of your time and your social life is gone, so on and so forth...cause if I say more, this wil be more like whining and complaining which I am not...

I wonder what if there was a life that had you and only you and all you did and all you do is only for yourself...??..If there is a day like that, then trust me...I would not want it to ever end...!!! I wanna live my life for myself...;))