Once bitten..Twice Shy....!!

I do not know how many of you have experienced what I am experiencing right now...let me pen down and its left for you to answer...

Many things happen in our lives which for the first time make no sense and we are forced to or rather bound to react on the limited scope called REFLEX...be it a physical proocation or a mental one...but if a similar event occurs again one applies his mind and looks for a more concrete solution, thus making him an provoking him to think rather than act in reflex...Why is it?