Acceptance...

Just adding few cumilative points and few good questions to be asked...to the post 'I am beautiful, So are you', by Mira...

By the principle of duality, every person is unique in the face of this universe and every specimen has its own counter specimen too..this is the law on which this whole freaking universe works and there is a meaning for life on Earth..So why has to one change

1. The law on which life has a reason,
2. As a person, which will make another person feel lost..??

Life is all about yourself, and all that you have is because of what you are, friends, family and emotions from all around you...

But when it comes to acceptance from others for what you are, if they do not like you for what you are, and you want to change yourself for one person, what will the others who have you as an integral part of their life do..?? Change themselves with respect to you in picture..?? Do you realise how much of changes around is induced by you, cause not all people have the mind and heart to accept you as a person for what you are, and if they do not..they are at loss and not you..

Never change for someone else, change in you should be self induced and for good..!!!..

Hope the one for whom this is meant reads it..!!!

Faith or Fate...??

Have been wondering on this for sometime now...and decided to write this post..hoping to get some answers by the end of this scribbling...

Was talking to one of my friends about he doing his MS in the US (his dream and faith)...and all he had to say was...I do not know dude...have done my part in getting a good score in GRE(1430/1600) and days before the interview for his Visa...he said..now I leave it to fate...

Another friend of mine, who was actually worried about providing the best education for her daughter, all she had to say was...'Hope all the hard work pays of and things fall in place' and she was given solace by saying - 'edhu varanamo adhu varum' which translates to 'Wuts destined will happen'...

I mean, it is like trying to toss a coin and get both head and tail, which is actually impossible.. I have been brought up with an ideology which simply put says - 'Hard and Smart work always pays off ' and I have been believing in my faith in what I do than my fate, but it still gives me a confused thought when people say - "You are destined for bigger things in life than saying, You will make it big...!!!..."

Do I trust in my Faith or Fate...??

Zone of Influence...

I call myself the Harricane n it took me so long to understand this simple fact...What you are in this whole world in anyone's eyes is not yourself but is a sculpted influence of others.

When you are a kid, its the parents influence as you grow...when in the age where you spend more time with friends than family...its the life changing influence of them...and so on one is influenced till death...and the worst part is that, at some point when you have your own kids, you also are a part of the Influnce causing loop... Knowing all these we still talk about individuality and not being influenced by others..??

End of the day - "Your whole strength and power, vigor and rage and all the attributes that one can associate with him/her self is not actually what you are but it is the influence of others.
How many occasions has it been that you have cried because of yourself, that you have laughed at things you have done for yourself and count the number of times others around you have made you cry and made you laugh/smile. The difference is enormous.

Now all that i doubt is...How many people have i influenced so far..and WHY..??

AsSuMpTiOnSsSsSsSs..

The biggest killer in any kind of a relationship...people just assume things all by themselves not even knowing what the other person is going through nor understanding that in how deep a pit is the other person standing, drowning him.her self.

Do not understand why, that when everyone does everything to keep others happy, but at the same time when it comes to they hurting themselves, the sting of assumptions haunt their minds and they would neither want to look at reality and whts happening in front of them, nor will they have the patience to wait and listen to what others have to say or till they find a resolve for it...!!

Perspectives...

Once pricked..Man will only see the thorns present in the most beautiful rose plants around him...